Fire

آری، آری ، زندگی زیباست زندگی آتشگهی دیرنده پا برجاست گر بیفروزیش، رقص شعله اش در هر کران پیداست ورنه، خاموش است وخاموشی گناه ماست سیاوش کسرایی / / / / / Life is like fire, can burns forever. If we turn it on we can see flame dances from far away, other wise its dark and thats our fault.

Almost last year, when I was walking on that beautiful green hill, I got to the point, that love can't be exist between two people who wants to live or spend lots of time together. spending time together and having a close relationship would cause expectation. and I sued to believe expectation from your partner would destroy the love. casuse people can't usually fill up each others expectation.


Last night I've got another perspective, through my experiance from last year, and thinking about some webolg I read. I thought Love is not about not wanting any thing, and not expecting any thing in return from your partner. Love is when you do some thing for ur partner, when it does not benefits you, and you do it only beacuse it may makes your partner happy. Its about doing some thing, that you usually don't do, just beacuse your partner wants and expect it, and doing it with kindness and satisfaction. not just for the sake of stopping your partner from nagging, or for the sake of getting some thing in return, sextually or economically. This willingness to satisfy your partners needs and expectations- just for the sake of ur partner's wish- would be proportional to your pure love.

I got to the point that love between two partner, is not about sacrifising your self, and want nothing in return and ignoring all your expectation under shadow of what you call it "love". But its about underestaning and respecting your own and your partner's expectations, finding a common ground and trying to fullfill those expectation.